Conformed or Transformed???

I was thinking about some of these things yesterday after our preacher preached on them...wow i need to apply these things in my life!!!! Are you going to be Conformed by the world or Transformed by the Lord? We are called to be set apart..different from those around us!! Romans 12:2"Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is-His good, pleasing and perfect will." When you are saved we become new creatures....2 Corinthians 5:17"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone the new has come!" We are to be hot or cold.......its black or white no gray area no middle ground with God...people that are luke warm make Him sick!! I can't go on the same way I do..im to be different set apart!!!! We can't measure ourselves to people either we are different and were made that way!! I have to STOP talking about what I am going to do and start doing it!! Making it heart knowledge NOT just head knowledge!!!